Insourcing vs. Outsourcing Self Love: Why External Validation Will Never Fully Quench Your Thirst
7 days ago • 2 min readInsourcing vs. Outsourcing Love Hi Reader - This past weekend was historic for me. After ten years of podcasting, I hosted my first LIVE podcast gathering. More than ever, I find myself craving real connection. Podcasting has been deeply rewarding…and also isolating. I'm not a social media connector, but I am absolutely a small-group, around-the-table connector. (Introverts unite!) Those who attended live gave some incredible feedback. "This was mind-blowing!” "Such a beautiful way to see...
READ POST I needed others to love me first
16 days ago • 3 min readI needed others to love me first Hi Reader - I can’t stop thinking about some wisdom I read in the book, The Courage to Be Happy. In essence, it’s the idea that when you are an infant (and helpless), you need an external person to love you. You literally cannot survive without the love of a mother or caregiver supporting you. And yet, the author explains that our courage to be happy in life comes from the ability to be the giver of love. Unfortunately, many of us are still rooted in that...
READ POSTIt’s Here! Introducing the Practicing Wholeness Podcast
22 days ago • 1 min readIt’s Here! Introducing the Practicing Wholeness Podcast Hi Reader - My new podcast, Practicing Wholeness, is now live in the world this week! It’s been a long time coming. Fun fact: I’ve been a podcaster since 2015, and this is the fourth podcast I’ve created. (Not to be confused with episodes… yes, this is an entirely new show.) If you’re thinking, “Wait… isn’t Creator Field Notes publishing three episodes a week right now?” — yes. That content has been pre-recorded and scheduled out for the...
READ POSTNever let a trigger go to waste.
about 2 months ago • 2 min readHi Reader - “Never let a trigger go to waste.” I first heard this wise counsel last year, and I’ve found myself offering it up as a gem of wisdom in all my deep conversations. It feels fitting to write on this topic this week, because I have been all sorts of triggered ;) Triggered by current events. Triggered by media. Triggered by hormones. Triggered by AI. They’re likely all connected, because everything is. So what does it mean to not let a trigger go to waste? In the grand scheme of...
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